It's impossible to unlearn something. That much is a given. In light of Dana's recent revelation, it's impossible to conclude that she's nothing but a phony and a hypocrite. Physically, she's no different to me - and yet berates me for being what I am. Her ever-changing standards of what, whom, a woman is can get confusing, so let me guide you, dear reader: a woman is whatever or whomever Dana decides.
Motivation is, to her, all-important. Well, it is to me, too! I don't really care about her motivation; it's her life, it's her body. She's the one who uses every opportunity to demean others with whom she has had an hitherto unknown resemblance. While I don't care about her motivations, I do care about mine. And what they are, the resulting conclusions and actions are not for her to critique; although she does, along with some others, in doing exactly that.
Perhaps bitter experience has made her the old crone she is today; I've never noted a ray of sunshine in her blog posts. Wizened whining, yes. Sunshine? no. Optimism? ... Can't recall any. Hope? Likewise. Ready with the immature barb, she's fond of telling you who you are, all the while hiding what she is. By her light she is what she says I am. Except she now tells us her motivation is important. It is to her. It isn't to me. Her motivation is as important to me as mine is to her. That is: without importance. Trivial. Discardable. The only difference being that I still consider her worth respecting and she respects no one and considers none worthy of her high esteem.
With one angry, unguarded post she has betrayed her entire philosophy. With one careless paragraph, one angry rant - she's defined herself a hypocrite, a venal and vicious stalagmite. Exploiting her own aggrandizement, she prefers the destruction of others to wondering at the diversity of humanity, to questioning her own bigotry and is blinded to the hypocrisy of her own (such as they are) ideas.
So while her operative standard is unimportant, it can, and will, inform others of her anger and dogma. She has reduced herself to a comic figure; even deleting the post will do no good - knowledge of it is now out there, and her enemies will exploit it to the full. As she exploits her tenuous sexism to demean them.
She is who she is. The problem comes because she can't accept that others are as they are. I have my doubts she ever will learn to do that.
Carolyn Ann
Dana is just a confused person still finding herself. she can't come to grips with the reality of her situation and can't just exist as she is. I think if you read between the lines of her writing you will find a person who is desperate for help and is hiding her true emotions with a lots of anger, hatred and high and mightiness. it sure doesn't sound like she's following WPATH standards of care of seeing a therapist if she has to be so angry all the time.
ReplyDeletedana cant handle criticism, that much is evident from her changing her blog all the time. i agree with anon 1, shes just confused and needs good therapy to hangdle her anger. ive seen plenty of girls just like her go down the wrong path.. dpression suicide and shit. something is evidently bothering her and this is te only way she knows how to communicate with the world.. thru that crazy blog of hers. she is just obsessed with being called racist nazi whatever and keeps saying shes a woman. doesn't help that her blog is so negative
ReplyDeletegod now shes using one of your pictures in a new blog about you citing some things you said seven years ago. this coming from a wretchedly horrible looking "womsn born transexual" who wasnt even OUT for more than a few years. the monster doesnt even show her own face in her blog
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